Minimalist Hospital Bag for New Parents

It’s time to pack your birth bag! What to pack in your minimalist hospital bag.

McAllen, Texas

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So you’re having a baby and want to keep it simple… you’re in luck! I have the list of things you’ll need for your upcoming birth. In some cases you may need to add a few things depending your individual needs but this is a great guide to get you started.

Note: I’m not sponsored by any of these companies so feel free to branch out and learn more about their products on their own to ensure they meet all your ethical check lists. :)

Comfy non-slip socks, slippers, or shower shoes: My favorite pair of slippers would be my preferred choice but hospital floors can get kind of icky, so if you want to save your favorites for home, take a cheap replacement with you to the hospital or birth center. Shower shoes/flip flops are an excellent choice so you can wear them during your shower too.

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Chapstick: (because nobody likes dry lips. ouch.) You breathe a lot during labor… A LOT. If you’re hooked up to an I.V. you likely don’t have a lot of access to drinks and your lips may feel very dry. Bring your favorite chapstick and you’ll be glad you did.

Hair ties: Whatever you prefer to use to hold your hair back is good. Bring an extra elastic or headband in case you misplace the one you’re wearing.

A comfy robe: Your hospital or birth center may already have these on hand but if you’ve never been in a hospital gown, get ready to see some funky patterns and colors. They’re 100% useful but not always the most comfortable. A comfy robe will look good in photos (you’ll likely be taking tons of them, you ARE meeting your baby for the first time) and it will also make you feel good. Plus, you won’t feel a draft on your back every time you get out of bed.

Nursing Tank Top (1 or 2): If you’re planning to nurse your new little addition, the nursing tank top will be super helpful. Most of the time, these come with a built-in “bra” and can be worn under your robe or your going home outfit of choice. (I think I lived in nursing tanks for the entirety of my breastfeeding career…. lol)

Nursing Bra: A cotton bra without underwires or fancy stuff is perfectly fine. It’s just there to support you and keep everything handy for the many feedings ahead.

Cotton Underwear: Think granny-panties. The bigger the better. Your abdomen will still be swollen (you just had a baby, it takes a while for things to shrink back to their semi-original state) , you’ll have a giant pad to catch the lochia discharge post birth, and in the event of a cesarean, these giant undies won’t irritate your incision site.

Toiletries + Light Make-Up: Hospitals generally have everything you need but if you need special products, it’s always a good idea to pack a small toiletries bag. Pack your toothbrush, toothpaste, shampoo, deodorant, lotion, hair brush, and maybe some make-up wipes. As far as make-up goes, I always suggest a simple tinted moisturizer, mascara and some tinted lip gloss. #easypeasy.

Protein filled snacks: You can’t forget your favorite protein packed snacks! You may not be able to eat much while in labor but your partner may need an energy boost to stay strong and by your side. You’ll also need your own energy boost post birth. So pack your favorite protein bars or trail mix. Mix it up so you have a couple of options. (With Covid-19 restrictions at most of our hospitals, you may want to consider packing a few more than you may think you need since your partner will not be able to leave the hospital once they are by your side.)

Gum or Mints: These are helpful during labor when you have nausea (peppermint is a good choice.) They are also super helpful in case you or your partner need a fresh breath boost.

Cell Phone + Charger: Our phones do it all these days. Google search, FaceTime call for our families, Camera for the thousands of pictures… you’ll need it. Don’t forget to pack your charger and to keep it close for those important photo opportunities.

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Bluetooth Speaker or Earbuds: Want music during labor? These are a must. A Bluetooth speaker can drown out the beeping coming from the hospital halls. Earbuds are an excellent choice if you’re practicing Hypnobabies too!

Birth Plan: If you’ve created one, print it and bring it with you. It’s good to have a few copies. One for the nurses station and one for your room.

Wallet: You’ll need your I.D. and insurance card as well as a credit/debit card in case you need to make a payment or purchase while you’re at your birth facility.

Your own pillow: It’s smells like home, it feels like home. You may get better sleep with it too. Make sure you use a pillow case that can be easily identified so it doesn’t get swept away with all the white pillows at your birth facility.

Medications: If you are on special medication, don’t forget to pack them.

What about baby? I haven’t forgotten about your little one. While you’re at your birthing facility, chances are your baby will be in a diaper and a swaddle. This makes it much easier for nurses and doctors to check on baby as needed. However, you’ll need a couple of items to bring baby home.

A swaddle blanket (1 or 2): A thin muslin or cotton blanket is sufficient. If it’s winter, you may want to consider something a little thicker for the weather. Winters in South Texas aren’t too terrible but you may want to plan for that random “cold front.”

Going Home Outfit: A simple outfit for baby should suffice. You may want to stick to something like a cotton onesie in a color you like for those going home photos. Newborn size is fine for most babies but if you’re expecting a bigger baby, carry a 0-3 month size too…. just in case.

Going Home Outfit for YOU: My outfit of choice was always something super comfy like yoga pants and a loose nursing top. I think I one wore a slip-on summer dress too. The less I had to fuss with it, the better. Something that doesn’t wrinkle too much is good, it will be sitting in your bag for a while so there will be plenty of time for it to accumulate wrinkles in there.

Planning to birth at a birthing center? You may need newborn diapers too. Check with your facility on this one. Most birthing facilities have everything you need for your baby already available for you.

Have anything to add to this list? Drop it in the comments so future parents can add it to their bag.

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Birth Story: Mariano | Home Birth in Edinburg, Texas

The Birth of Mariano | Home Birth in Edinburg, Texas

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Julia and I met quite a while back. The universe had us cross paths when my 7 year old was still in diapers and I was fostering babies. Cloth diapers brought us together and then birth had us cross paths again when she invited me to document the birth of her daughter two years ago.

Now, here we are. Two births into our friendship and I am constantly floored with how incredible this mama is.

Julia has seen multiple variations of normal within her birth experiences and she’s worked gracefully through each one as they have presented themselves. She chose to birth at home for her two most recent births and she’s powered through her labors.

Nicole from Blessed Womb Homebirth Services was her midwife at each of her last two births and Julia speaks so highly of how supported she felt.

My heart is always filled with so much hope when I see a woman supported and respected in her birth space no matter how she chooses to birth her baby.

I am so thankful for the friendship that has blossomed with Julia. I have witnessed such incredible strength and love from her. She inspires me. She truly does.

Congratulations to her sweet family of 5!

Laboring at home. Photo by Norma Hess at Sojourning Birth, McAllen, Texas #homebirthmcallen #rgvhomebirth
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If you have been considering documenting your birth story, let’s chat. This is one decision you won’t regret. You are about to meet a little love of your life, I can document the details.

~Norma H

Corona Virus or Covid-19: What are we doing to prepare?

McAllen Covid-19 Preparation:

Pregnancy and the Coronavirus.

Covid-19 newborn photos are different these days. This is a photo from a “Coming Home” session in McAllen, Texas. Newborn photos by Norma Hess at SojourningBirth.com

What a surreal life event this has been, am I right?

If you’ve been checking in on any social media or media outlet, you’ve probably been inundated with news and updates pertaining to Covid-19.

What does this mean for birth photography or doula services here in the Rio Grande Valley? Well, it means that we have more restrictions in our area hospitals (who are overwhelmed at this time) and that we’ll have to be even more conscious about our habits as we move forward and support you. There IS a plan of action in place for Sojourning Birth.

Hospital births has pretty much come to a halt when it comes to birth photography and doula support. The only way we are allowed in is if you choose to have me as your doula and only support person at the hospital. (Limit of 1 additional person in the birth space.)

However, if you are choosing to birth at home or at one of our local birth centers, our services haven’t changed much there. We can still offer birth photo or doula support in person with the presence of your partner as well. You’ll simply need to clear it with your midwives.

Here’s our current plan of action:

All prospective client meetings will be scheduled virtually vs in-person.

We can Facetime, use Zoom, or Google Hangouts to talk about your birth and how I can help support or document your special day.

Moving forward, all prenatal and postpartum meetings will also be held virtually.

Part of our plan of action is to be proactive in keeping our own health in tip-top shape. This means abstaining from large gatherings, unnecessary travel, etc. My goal is to keep all of your families safe as well as my own little crew here at home.

Keeping up to date with all WHO and CDC updates and recommendations.

There’s a whole lot of information coming at us from every angle. I am aware that some sources out on the internet and social media are not always accurate. For this reason, I’m making sure to lean into reputable sources for updates to ensure your safety.

Immune system maintenance.

If you follow my social media, you may already know that I am pretty obsessed with maintaining a healthy and strong immune system. (Vitamins, water intake, and eating those fruits and veggies have never looked better.) I do my best to keep away from folks who are sick, have been sick recently, or have other sick family members at home to minimize risks. I take this job pretty seriously and truly care about your health. Thank you for trusting me and for inviting me to your sacred spaces.

Honesty and Transparency.

All relationships based on trust tend to be off to a good start. I want to be totally transparent with you and invite you to do the same with me. I will update you if I am not feeling well and you can do the same with me. I will likely not be shaking your hands in the coming weeks or coming in for a hug anyway (as a preventative measure…) we can just do that awkward wave and hello from a distance, maybe laugh about it too.

I will have trustworthy back-ups in place in the event that I am ill or one of my family members is ill. They will step in to support you or document your journey (I will still be editing your photographs.)

I will be 100% flexible with your sessions. If birth photography is not an option because you are laboring at a local hospital, we can plan a “Coming Home” session. I will meet you at the hospital as you are released, follow you home and while staying socially distant, document your coming home moments. These are great to capture big brothers and big sisters in action.

Handwashing.

Fun Fact: I trained and certified as a nurse assistant in 2005. I also trained (while in the NAVY) for medical emergency response while deployed on the USS Iwo-Jima LHD7.

Handwashing has always been super important to me because life with my own kids has shown me you can never be too careful. ha!

I’ve been trained in proper handwashing, glove usage and general sanitizing procedures in health facilities.

While I can’t use my medical training in my doula role, I can still implement the tools I learned along the way in effort to help keep myself and those around me safe.

I never thought I’d have to write about this in one of my blogs but I’m sure it will bring you a little bit more peace of mind… :)

Please know that I am working right alongside you to ensure our whole community is safe. I’m so thankful for you and always invite you to reach out to me if you have any thoughts, questions or concerns.

~Norma H


Water birth at Holy Family Birthing Center in Weslaco, Texas | Photo by Norma Hess at SojourningBirth.com




People's Choice Winners of the Birth Becomes Her Image Review 2020

The 2020 People’s Choice Winners and Honorable Mentions were announced!

NICU Photographer in McAllen, TX

NICU stays are never easy for families. Documenting the moments of this arduous journey can aid with the healing process. Professional NICU photographer, Norma Hess from Sojourning Birth in McAllen, Texas.

The 2020 Birth Becomes Her Image Review is in progress and this week, the winners and honorable mentions of The People Choice were announced!

I am so humbled to have this incredibly moving image make the cut. This image is one of the first images that came to mind when I first considered entering this year’s review.

Let me tell you a little bit about this story from my perspective.

Originally, the plan had been to attend this birth to document the moment this sweet baby entered the world. Plans changed quickly when things didn’t go as planned. (Birth is unpredictable like that sometimes.) I didn’t take a single photo. Instead, I helped call an ambulance, flagged them down, and held adoptive mama in my arms as we waited for paramedics to transfer this baby to the hospital.

I was shattered for this family… both biological and adoptive. My heart was heavy and I went home wondering whether everyone was ok. Wondering if it was too soon to send a message with my love. Wondering if it was too soon to offer to come to the NICU to document this story.

4 days later, we met at the NICU. We talked, connected and waited to head in to see baby. This would be the first time everyone would be int he same room with baby and it was a very emotional moment. There was prayer, laughter, tears, hugs and so much hope. I’m honestly not sure how I managed to hold myself together as I witnessed all the tender moments between this family.

This amazing baby is a fighter. As I approached her mama about submitting this photo for the 2020 BBH Image Review, I remembered what a vulnerable time this was for everyone. I’m so proud of her for saying yes to sharing this intimate moment. I know it’s important for us to see birth in all of it’s variations… our stories help others navigate their own journeys. It connects us to many other mamas even if we aren’t always aware of it.

These days, I see how incredibly strong this baby is as she pushes through each milestone, smiles, basks in the sunshine at the park… y’all, she’s amazing. I hang on to hope again, for all families currently experiencing their own NICU story or any who will do so in the future.

My heart is with you all. It takes so much strength and I’m here to support you if you need a friend.


Let’s keep exploring the rest of these incredible images! Discover the artists behind the photos too!

Over 15,000 votes were submitted this year for The People’s Choice voting round at the Birth Becomes Her Image Review 2020. Wowza!

It’s incredible to see so many beautiful images together… bringing us one step closer to normalizing all the variations of normal when it comes to birth.

It wasn’t long ago when many birth photographers struggled to have their images accepted by the entire photography community. It’s hard y’all. Birth can is raw and we fight social media bans almost daily. Big changes have been made in the last 4-5 years and I’m so happy to see that birth photography is now more openly welcomed!

Today, we see that the world is watching, and accepting this raw, emotional, beautiful and sometimes hard niche.

If you’re not following the Birth Becomes Her Image Review 2020, you should. The judges are tallying up their votes and the winners will be announced soon!

Congratulations to all the winners and honorable mentions in The 2020 People’s Choice round! Yay!

Here’s the list of the talented photographers from this round:

(Top 5 ) Brittney Hogue | Inge Berken | Sarah Hill Photography | Julie Asdurian Fotografia | Hardie Photography

(Honorable Mentions) Tinette Turton | Renate van Lith Fototgrafie | Love is Photography | Abigail Page Photography | Sophia’s Special Deliveries | The Antwerp Doula | Noa Fotografie | Jenna Van Photography | Michelle Glenn Photography | Blessed Touch Photography | Christina King Photography | Rushes and Waves Photography | Salt City Birth and Newborn Photography | Births by Tim | Neo Photography | Sojourning Birth | Alexandria Mooney | Wunderbirth